If You Want a Chance to Save Your Marriage, Do This.
First off, brother, you’re not alone.
Women initiate 70% of divorces—and every single day, I talk to another man who’s blindsided by it.
You never thought this would happen to you.
You worked hard. You provided. You were a good guy.
And now she’s pulling away—or already out the door.
Want a shot at saving your marriage?
Then you need to shift your mindset immediately:
👉 Act like she’s already gone.
👉 Start living as if it’s over.
I know that sounds extreme.
But it’s the only way to break the cycle that got you here in the first place.
Why She’s Leaving (It’s Not What You Think)
The #1 reason women ask for divorce?
They don’t feel safe in the relationship.
I know what you’re thinking:
"I never made her unsafe. I’m a good guy. I treat her well. People say I’m the nicest guy they know."
But that’s exactly why she’s leaving.
You Tried to Fix Her Life—And It Killed the Attraction
You tried to make her life perfect.
You solved all her problems—hoping she’d love you for it.
You made her your emotional center—your source of validation.
And eventually, she felt like she was mothering you instead of being your wife.
Deep down, you knew this.
She’s been telling you for years that something needed to change.
But instead of leading, you focused everything on her.
You stopped:
❌ Living for your own purpose.
❌ Pursuing your own passions.
❌ Standing firm in your own identity.
And instead, you made her your purpose.
You knew this. But you didn’t want to admit it.
The Only Way to Turn This Around
If you truly want a shot at saving your marriage, you need to become a man she can respect again.
✅ Reconnect with your own purpose. (Outside of her.)
✅ Find your passion again. (The things that light you up, whether she’s watching or not.)
✅ Lead your own life first. (Before trying to lead her.)
It sounds obvious.
But it’s much easier said than done.
That’s why so many men fail at this stage.
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Since 2015, I’ve helped founders, business owners, and entrepreneurs navigate this exact stage.
Some don’t make it—but the ones who reconnect with their God-given identity thrive.
No matter how it ends.
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If you want a chance, do this.
First off, brother, you’re not alone. Women initiate 70% of divorces, and every day I talk to another man who’s blindsided by this.
Do me a favor and save this reel so you can come back and study it. And follow me if you want to keep learning how to survive this.
If you want any shot at saving your marriage, you need to switch your mindset: act like she’s already gone. Start living as if it’s over.
Here’s why. The biggest reason women ask for a divorce is because they don’t feel safe in the relationship. You might be thinking, “I never made her unsafe. I’m a good guy. People even say I’m the nicest guy they know.”
But that’s the very reason she’s leaving. You tried to make her life perfect and fix all her problems, hoping she’d love you forever. Then you made her your emotional center—your source of validation. Eventually, she felt like she had to manage your emotions—like she was mothering you instead of being your partner. DEEP DOWN YOU KNEW THIS.
This left her feeling disconnected, and she’s probably been telling you for years that something needed to change. Meanwhile, you stopped living for your own purpose and passion because you made her your purpose and passion. Again, you knew this but didn’t want to admit it.
If you truly want to rescue your marriage, it’s crucial to rediscover what makes you unique. You need to reconnect with your own purpose and passion, separate from her. This should feel obvious. And yes, it’s much easier said than done.
I’ve been helping founders, business owners, and entrepreneurs navigate this stage since 2015. Some don’t make it, but the ones who find their God-given identity thrive—no matter how it ends.
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